ABOUT ALETTE
I am a passionate advocate for positive change. I will help you uncover, harness, and amplify your strengths and values, so you can thrive.
My Story
I was born and raised in The Netherlands. My parents likely expected a completely different kind of child, as they valued stability, safety, and security, while I was naturally curious, adventurous, and impulsive. Without a clear sense of direction, I seized an opportunity to spend a year at a college in the United States. The freedom and boundless possibilities I encountered there ignited a desire to make it my home.
As an 18-year-old immigrant, I faced numerous challenges during those early years. It was a tumultuous journey, and I lacked a strong support system. However, I persevered, completed my college education, embarked on a successful career, and found a wonderful life partner. For over two decades, we enjoyed the privileges of an upper-middle-class life while raising our two incredible children.
Yet, life has a way of throwing unexpected twists our way. When our children left for college, my husband also embarked on a journey to find a new path and a different partner. The period that followed was exceptionally challenging, and everything I had meticulously planned and worked toward seemed to crumble. It became a period of deep reflection and self-discovery.
I will tell anyone that happiness is not a spectator sport. You must get into the arena and get dirty.
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My journey through this trying time was anything but easy. Discovering "happiness" isn't a passive endeavor; it demands active engagement. Embracing failures as steppingstones to success and being willing to endure the bumps and bruises (of which I collected plenty) along the way were crucial. While moments of disheartenment came my way, my determination to find my true passion and purpose propelled me forward.
I sought counseling for healing, received coaching to uncover my purpose, and delved deep into the science of human thriving through positive psychology. It taught me the importance of leveraging my strengths, developing courage, self-awareness, self-compassion, and mindfulness. Ultimately, this path led me to pursue a master's degree in positive psychology and make the decision that my third professional act would involve coaching people to reach their true potential.
Challenges, stress, and life's unexpected twists still come my way, but I am now equipped to handle them in a way that doesn't hold me back. In fact, virtually every aspect of my life has improved – from my health to my relationships. I now pursue my career with a sense of flow and confidence that I once thought impossible.
Today, I'm dedicating this chapter of my life to sharing the insights and tools I've gained with anyone willing to roll up their sleeves and work together to live their best possible life.
Education and Credentials: Alette holds a bachelor’s degree in business, a master’s degree in Positive Psychology with a specialization in Coaching Psychology. She is an Associate Certified Coach with the International Coaching Federation (ICF), and a Gallup-Certified Strengths Coach.
confident mindset and tools to navigate complex life, leadership, and career decisions with authenticity and ease.
Ways to work with me
Individual
Coaching
Mental Fitness
Training
Leadership
Development
What my clients say
“Alette is truly interested in your wellbeing and success in moving forward with the best possible version of you.”
“I cannot recommend my coach Alette enough! She began our journey by discovering my unique strengths and talents. I began to understand my natural talents and gifts and how to leverage them effectively in my daily life personally as well as professionally.”
“Alette allowed me to push past deeply ingrained beliefs and to see parts of myself that I never knew existed…”
“Alette partners with you as you sort through the maze in your mind to get to the answer you were hiding from yourself. She asks powerful questions that cause you to ponder and look within yourself to find what you really want.”
“I left a stable career after 27 years to start my own business. Alette is coaching me into a life of serving others within the boundaries of flexibility in my life, freedom to come and go, and financial reward I initially doubted.”
“What I love most about my coaching sessions with Alette are the transformations that take place, especially when I feel stuck or confused about what direction to take.”
GETTING YOU TO WHERE YOU WANT TO BE!
Through coaching, you will learn to leverage your strengths, and increase your clarity, focus, and resilience, paving the way for you to achieve your aspirations.
